Welcome and thank you for looking at my ad. I am a married bi-male who seeks a bi or gay male for long term friendship/relationship with me and my wife and M2M safe play (wife not involved in play). She knows and supports my desire for a M2M connection. We prefer an exclusive relationship to ensure that we stay STD/HIV-AIDs free. Therefore, players are not desired. Please be local to the Winchester, Virginia area so we can do things on a regular basis. Finally, we seek someone who does not drink alcohol (eliminated it from our lives). We smoke, but will be eliminating that as well. We are okay if you use, provided it is only weed – no other stuff. [B]WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have our permission to use any of our profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this. [/B] We can host. Our lives with us, so we need to be discreet when she is present. She works during the day and at nights on a regular schedule, so that leaves private times. About me: I am white, 6’, 230 lbs, short hair/beard, with a 6” average fairly thick cock. I am mostly dominate, love oral/hand play, massages, and open to all activities as long as they are safe. I enjoy using toys, such as cock rings, plugs, penis pumps, and my e-stim device. For the future, I plan to purchase a male milking machine and a machine similar to the Sybian for anal play (and my wife will also use it to grind out her pleasures). We had a bi-male friend before; however, that relationship ended unfortunately when we had to move to a different area. If you like what you read, please reply and let's see where it goes. Hope to hear from you soon, Randy

My Ideal Person The ideal male will be bi or gay and have time and desire to develop a lasting relationship – not being secretive about the relationship (i.e., hiding it from your wife or other male, if you have one; not being able to host) . He will be in his 30s+ and more submissive/bottom than dominate – loving touch, oral, and play variety. Preferably, he will not have facial hair and be of small to medium build. Personality is definitely more important than looks. An interest in light, sexual, bdsm play is good as well. We do have some of those toys as well. If he likes to cross-dress, that is fine as well. Finally, I am okay with someone who would like a younger-older relationship provide they are not too young (under 25).

Regarding other things he likes doing, it would be great if he had an interest in computers, website development/Internet business, photography, cooking, gardening, music (we enjoy rock), and watching TV/movies. We enjoy a good conversation and relaxing.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
A couple of them. I managed to meet a wonderful cross-dresser. We hit it off
and decided to get together. We started playing and it became
obvious he loved giving oral sex. His talents were amazing.
His mouth was so soft and his hands just knew where to hold
my cock and balls. He tonged, sucked, and stroked my cock
with his mouth while massaging my balls. The feeling was
incredible. The pressure built and I exploded in his mouth.
He did not miss a drop. <br><br>
Another memorable one was with a younger guy with a smooth
body. We inserted butt plugs into each other and started
to 69 each other. When we both were hard, I straddled him
and put lube on my hands and our cocks. I put both cocks together
and started stroking until we both came all over his stomach
and chest.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Openminded

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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