[B]PLEASE READ MY PROFILE CAREFULLY BEFORE EMAILING ME![/B] I'm not here looking for casual sex. If that's what you're looking for then look elsewhere. I'm very involved in BDSM (bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism and masochism) and I'm looking for others who are also involved in BDSM. I'm seeking both submissive women, and men who are dominant in the bedroom and BDSM scenes (but not in daily life). I prefer people who have significant real life experience in BDSM and who are preferably involved in the BDSM public community (but I'm very open to teaching women who want to learn about kink in a submissive role). I'm ultimately looking for committed primary relationships with a man who is dominant in the bedroom and during BDSM scenes, and with a submissive woman who would belong to me (I am not interested in becoming involved with an established dom/sub couple). I may be sexie but I no longer identify as submissive. In fact I can be very dominant, both sexually and kink-wise, but only with women. Men: If you brag that you're "very oral" that will not make me more interested in you! I'm sick of reading men's profiles bragging about how much they love eating pussy. Yee gods, that isn't all women want! Women: If you're bisexual, queer, bi-curious, lesbian, pansexual, whatever, and you get off from being submissive during kink play and sex, or you've always been interested in being submissive to a dominant woman, I would love to hear from you. I tend to be most attracted to women who are much younger than I am, who are relatively height/weight proportional, have a sense of humor, and who find fulfillment in serving a dominant woman. Feel free to ask me questions if you want to know more about this lifestyle.

My Ideal Person As far as dominant men are concerned I am only looking for men who have significant experience in BDSM and who are emotionally mature, intelligent both intellectually and emotionally, have a good sense of humor, are financially secure, confident, emotionally stable, loving, and not controlling in daily life.

As explained above, in women my ideal lady would be someone who derives pleasure from taking a submissive role during sex and kink scenes. I would also love a girl who also derives pleasure from serving her mistress.

I am very attracted to women who are much younger than myself, (20's to early 40's to be exact), and who are relatively height/weight proportional (you dont have to look like a model, I do like curves). If you don't know how to be submissive in regards to BDSM but would like to learn, don't worry, I'm an excellent teacher.

I only participate in Safe, Sane, and Consensual Sexual/Kink Practices. Kink/BDSM is NOT about abuse!

To all: be real, be serious about what you want and be genuine. Emotional maturity and intelligence are very important to me. Looks are not as important to me as your personality and attitude are.

I insist on honesty from partners and friends. In that vein I want to admit that I am 10 years older than the age shown in my profile. I feel, look and act much younger than my chronological age. Most of my friends say I look at least 10 years younger (I thank you ancestors every day). Face pics will be sent to serious inquirers
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I also want to make it clear to everyone that I have fibromyalgia and I sometimes feel too crappy to do anything. If you have no desire to be with someone who has a chronic illness then don't bother contacting me.

I also will not help you cheat on their significant other. If you're married or in a domestic partnership then I absolutely will not become involved with you in any way, shape, or form. Be truthful with your partners.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

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